3 reasons why you should never marry a person who has never been single.
I watched a Tik Tok video by Benjamin Zulu Ke, a relationship coach, who gave advice about never marrying someone who has not been single for at least two years.
While the time may vary for different people, the point is that a person should have been single for a considerable period before being with someone. It has its benefits.
When a person has been single for a certain period of time, especially after a break up, it is time for self discovery and healing. It may seem like a lonely time, but I have been there. It was a good place to be in. I find it hard to understand why some people don’t enjoy their own company or spend time with close friends and family.
- A person who has never been single does not truly know themselves:
I can say without a doubt that this is true. Being single is an identity. Just like you were born alone, it is your identity. You learn what works best for you, you figure out what you like and do not like, what you can tolerate from a person, your skills, hobbies, and so many other things that make you unique.
“They don't discover who they are or what they want in life, their…
