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4 Types of Men you should avoid

If you want a happy marriage.

Lola Os
3 min readMay 5, 2022

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1.The Unstable Man

Ladies, please avoid unstable men, especially emotionally unstable men. One day he is madly in love with you, and the next minute, you are not sure what part of his heart or brain you occupy. This man can never make up his mind about anything. Also, when a man can’t control his emotions, please walk away fast. The fact that he cannot control his emotions will come with mood swings and occasional outbursts. It will definitely make you walk on eggshells in the relationship. Who wants that?

2. Unable to Leave and Cleave

I have met some Mama’s boys. The ones who would show up to his parents' house to have dinner and get advice on the most trivial things. A friend of mine was married to a mama’s boy. He called his mom about everything. His mom was a rather opinionated woman and gave a lot of advice that clashed with her daughter-in -law’s advice. The marriage ended. I avoid men who still live with their parents, especially when they can get a place of their own. In some cases, men will move temporarily with their parents to save money or improve their credit to buy a home. That is okay. If he is comfortable living at home, forget about it.

3.The Unavailable One

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Lola Os
Lola Os

Written by Lola Os

Author, Blogger, Slayer of Giants, Global Citizen of the Internet.

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