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A few truths about dating and how it can work for you.
Dating is supposed to be fun, either way you choose to look at it. Some people don’t know how to date, or they date for the wrong reasons.
Dating is something you should be intentional about. You meet a new person and decide to pursue a new activity together. It could be dinner in a fancy restaurant, bowling in a nice bowling alley, singing your lungs out at karaoke night, bungee jumping, picnic date at a park. There are so many dating activities that doesn’t constitute the usual ‘Netflix and chill!”
On dates, you ask questions, curious to know their likes and dislikes, things they do daily, their family and friends.
During dates, you should try to figure out if the person truly wants to be with you, or if you will end up as a statistic in their bed.
Dating should not make you build a wall around yourself, because you didn’t get it right. It should make you see the mistakes you made as a person, or if the other person is the mistake, and move on.
Dating sometimes comes with adversity. The type that requires emotional intelligence to overcome. When things don’t work out, the natural response is to quit and come up with the crazy excuse that there are no great candidates to date. Rejection is something some people cannot mentally handle, but I am here…
