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It’s common to find breakups challenging and feel nostalgic for your ex, but just because you miss them doesn’t necessarily mean you should readily accept them back into your life.
The most important thing to note is what ended the relationship.
Did you end it?
Did they end it?
Were there a series of break ups and make ups?
Were there a series of second chances?
Was there a promise to do better met with betrayal?
Reflect on the multitude of lies they uttered and recall the moment when you resolved to never to settle.
Your ex was probably great, well you put them on a pedestal, choosing that person above every other. Your ex made you happy once upon a Relationships go through both good and bad times.
However, if the bad times outweigh the good, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship.
If you’re considering getting back with your ex, it’s essential to recall the reasons why you ended the relationship in the first place.
It’s crucial not to take a step forward only to take a ten steps back.
“I still love him/her”
Yes you still may, but one thing about love is that it comes in seasons, you may be in love right now, but what happens when the love is tested. would you still feel the way you felt back then?
Make sure that you are being manipulated back into a relationship you either struggled or prayed your way out of.
The need for companionship will creep in as a result of loneliness, but don’t let loneliness make you run back to the arms of the wrong one and keep you from finding the right one.
