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SIGNS THAT YOU SUFFER FROM A NARCISSITIC ABUSE SYNDROME.
Narcissistic abuse is something a person wont realize until it is at the verge of destroying you mentally and emotionally. The romantic fairy tale you started with becomes a raging nightmare and in the process you lose yourself.
You can never do anything right by this person, no matter how hard you try to please them (which you shouldn’t because it’s their fault finding not necessarily because something is wrong with you). It is like playing soccer, and every time you score, the goal post is shifted.
As much as you love a narcissist , which is usually genuine, they don’t love you the same and they will seek to destroy you, because it is all they know how to do.
Here are signs you are suffering from narcissistic abuse.
- The constant call, texting and spending time together is usually what we want in a relationship. Communication, they say will help a relationship to thrive. This is not so with a narcissist. They will mirror the behavior to their own benefit. You will get constant calls and texts that go on for hours as a way of detaching from other people. They begin to control who you spend time with, who you talk to on the phone, what to wear, how to style your hair, it may show that they care, but once you get under their control, it’s a wrap.
