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WHY DO YOU KEEP ATTRACTING TRASHY PEOPLE?
Sometimes, one needs to reflect back on their lives to see why they keep meeting trashy people. I would always say making “rubbish friends”. These are the type of people that don’t bring “peace of mind.” Apart from that, you become those people.
You realize you are such a great person, but you keep feeling remorseful over the type of friends you have been making and probably keeping.
Certain types of drama keep recurring.
Why?
Let’s figure out what is going on.
Trashy people have a tendency to be toxic, and such people love being friends with people who cannot say “no” to other people. They are attracted to people who lack boundaries.
They always feel the need to please people. The need to be relevant among their friends and family members would always keep you running into trashy people. The idea of being relevant is more detrimental to you rather than the trash that you attract.
For instance, you have to be at work by 6 am on Saturday morning, you know for a fact that at midnight, you need to be in bed, but you decide to kick it with your “cool” friends so as not to offend them and you end up…
